We have a dog that seems to consistently tangle himself up on the cable tie when we let him out. He does it more than the others. Last night he did it and I had to wonder how it compares to my situation. He simply had gone around the pole once and was standing staring at the door waiting for something to change. Eventually he went around the other way and got himself lose and was free to come back in. Just like me, a simple solution was right in front of him, he just couldn't do what needed to happen to solve the quandary.
We finally got it worked out the big issue that I couldn't see around, for practically the whole marriage. I'm too one dimensional. I'm not treating my wife the way a loving caring husband should. I'm not acting as if I have a valued possession that is to be put on a pedestal. She deserves more than what I have done. I have to be working and valuing her in a way that I haven't done in the past. I need to have a different personality when I am afforded the chance to talk with my wife.
times typed "oftern"-0
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