lack of QT.

I caught some serious heat from nasamatt the other day. It was part of the reason I was willing to go to cincy and pal around with drweber. Nasamatt couldn't believe that I could sit around here and not have women on my mind all the time. He thought I should be stir crazy from not being around women and looking at them all the time. Spending all the time I did in columbus where I could see women around from my front porch is very different than here in brown county. I don't have the same oppurtunities here in southern ohio. I could go to some local bars and try to meet women. I don't want to start a trend that could get me a DUI though. I could go to columbus or cincinnati all I wanted, but don't have a strong group of friends that are willing to put up with me. Bars are to loud and noisy to try and really talk to women. I tend to be more of a wallflower at bars and drink to much. That doesn't win me many looks. Most of the girls I socialized with in columbus were from columbus and pretty well unwilling to come be known with me as a country boy. I didn't mention my online dating status to him, but drweber does know some info about it.

Keep in mind that my dating philosophy is a bit different than nasamatt's. He was just as hapless as me when we lived together at age 23. He finally found a girl after I moved out and has been dating her ever since then. That means he has been dating her for the better part of three years now. I would think that if I could stand a girl long enough to date her for that amount of time, I would have at least proposed. For the record, nasamatts girlfriend is a great girl and they seem happy together. I don't know about there situation beyond what I have said here. However, you ought to hear him when he gets in the company of some other men. Every woman on the tv gets a running commentary about her looks.

Part of the reason I broke up with my last girlfriend wast the amount of time we spent together. I am under the belief that I should be able to date someone for a year and know if I am in love with them or not. I don't see the point of only dating someone for three to four years. I didn't think I was in love with the last one when we broke up. I couldn't be with someone who I didn't think was going to be the one for me. I am not angry at her, but that is how I am going to approach a relationship. Sure it was tough to call it off, but I was beginning to think I was wasting my time continuing a romantic relationship. She seemed to think so also, as she was trying less at being with me.

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