I also managed to go three days between posts. I wonder if bloggers block is real.
I also had trouble sleeping last night. I was juggling to instant message conversations last night and they both left me unsettled. One of the girls asked me why I have never been married and don't have any kids. I am not sure what she was trying to find out about me, but I think I answered appropriately. I told her that it never worked out with the two serious girlfriends that I have had and that I kept it in my pants enough to not have kids. Then I asked her how she ended up in the town she was in, and got her to laugh when I told her that I live alone because "roommates are for poor people."
The other conversation might have been about dating advice. I'm not sure now that I am typing about it. Anyways, this friend found out someone is "not really" seeing someone he has been bringing to church. I advised her that if that is the case, she better get in there and let him know what she wants. There probably is more than what I was told. I kind of wish that I could go around with girls and then say that I am "not really" seeing anyone at the time. For as cautious as she seems to be, the "not really" thing strikes me as odd.
A couple of weeks ago I was asked why guys go after some girls and not other girls. Yesterday I read a good article that I think might have summed that question up. The article was on my favorite spiritual site. The article compared a good quality girl to an expensive pair of shoes that you have to work and save for. While the guy is waiting and working for the expensive quality pair, he may find a lesser adequate pair of shoes. The lower quality pair of shoes is easier for the guy and he goes for those instead of the high quality pair. All the while the expensive shoes are the ones that are better and are the ones that should have been desired. Taking the easy way out is not waiting for the better product. I don't know if I subliminally do this or not. I would like to think I stake out high quality girls for my life style and dating personality, but they don't always recriprocate.
times typed "oftern"-0
I also had trouble sleeping last night. I was juggling to instant message conversations last night and they both left me unsettled. One of the girls asked me why I have never been married and don't have any kids. I am not sure what she was trying to find out about me, but I think I answered appropriately. I told her that it never worked out with the two serious girlfriends that I have had and that I kept it in my pants enough to not have kids. Then I asked her how she ended up in the town she was in, and got her to laugh when I told her that I live alone because "roommates are for poor people."
The other conversation might have been about dating advice. I'm not sure now that I am typing about it. Anyways, this friend found out someone is "not really" seeing someone he has been bringing to church. I advised her that if that is the case, she better get in there and let him know what she wants. There probably is more than what I was told. I kind of wish that I could go around with girls and then say that I am "not really" seeing anyone at the time. For as cautious as she seems to be, the "not really" thing strikes me as odd.
A couple of weeks ago I was asked why guys go after some girls and not other girls. Yesterday I read a good article that I think might have summed that question up. The article was on my favorite spiritual site. The article compared a good quality girl to an expensive pair of shoes that you have to work and save for. While the guy is waiting and working for the expensive quality pair, he may find a lesser adequate pair of shoes. The lower quality pair of shoes is easier for the guy and he goes for those instead of the high quality pair. All the while the expensive shoes are the ones that are better and are the ones that should have been desired. Taking the easy way out is not waiting for the better product. I don't know if I subliminally do this or not. I would like to think I stake out high quality girls for my life style and dating personality, but they don't always recriprocate.
times typed "oftern"-0
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