Tuesday, November 17, 2009

profile profiler

I was thinking today about some of the dating profiles I come across. I find that many girls seem to love the city life and can't wait to run down where they are at and say someplace is boring or dull. I like where I live and list my town as. Sure, I get a chuckle out of listing a very discreet town, but like being in such a unpopulated place. I get to come and relax in the evenings without having to plan any more of my day. In college, sometimes as soon as I got back from class, I was out the door doing some non resting activity. Now that I am home, I get to rest and get to bed when I want to. To much activity was not a good thing for me. I just don't see the appeal of full time city living. Sure the dating pool may be larger and more convenient, but the hassle of constant opportunity and distractions are too much for me. I much prefer the settling in for the evening now. The weekends I usually would like to get out, but with my occupation I can't always plan that far ahead.

I also find it funny that almost every girl says they are willing to dress up to go out and also dress down and stay in for a home movie. Many girls also say they don't want cheaters or any number of bad qualities imaginable. While I am not claiming to not be those things in my profile, I don't think I am those things. Its such a paradox for the profiles I see on there, they want so much but are willing to be so unresponsive towards messages. Its as if they know that a person is going to treat them wrong before giving a person a chance.

I usually try to read a profile and think of something clever that shows that I read their profile. I went on a forum and read a whole thread about the pros and cons of doing so. On the pro side, if girls might like that you took the time to read their profile and may have found my message interesting. On the con side, if they aren't interested, it doesn't matter what I say in a clever letter, they aren't responding.

I also ordered my copy of p90x tonight. I will soon have my hunky farmer physique. Now I just have to find my buxom teacher that fb said would be a good match for me.

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